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Thursday, May 2, 2013
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Defining the meaning to a word: friendship. Depending on the relationship one had with their parents...this is the way you will relate to the rest of the world. For instance, a male boy that was in a traumatized relationship with a mother.... this person will not have a good relationship with his wife. He can fake relationships with other woman...and they may even fall under the spell of what a good friend this person is when in reality he is just being fake. Fake to be accepted. The same goes to woman in....
THE PERSON THAT KNOWS ONESELF WITH HAVE A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH ANOTHER HUMAN BEING.
PEOPLE DO NO CHANGE.... see it as an organic being. it grows, decays....the psyche goes through pleasure and transform...but nothing changes.... only transforms...
Hey Anonymous One! This is a great take on the definition of friendship. I do believe that how our parent's raise us can definitely influence our relationships with other people. Both healthy and unhealthy. However, I do believe that transformation is in a sense change. Perhaps we do not change completely, but choosing a form of transformation brings a sense of change. I look at Maslow's hierarchy of needs in response to "knowing one self". I have heard that very very few people actually come into full self actualization, and in a sense we are all flawed. Change is inevitable if we expect people to know "oneself". Biologically speaking I wouldn't know. Humans are still humans. We can't become flowers because we want to be flowers. So in that sense I agree, people cannot biologically change who they are. Great insight!!! Keep it coming! Cheers! -Leilani
to change is, for instance, and I don't want to impose anything....just don't believe anything I say...put it to proof.!!!!! hahaha A tree...will grow, a human too,...or better yet. a catapillar...is the same organic matter...it goes into metamorphosis... meaning ...meta-external change of appearance...nonetheless, it is still the same organism. it transformed...but its biological body is the same matter. as for humans. in their psyche, because of events... they adapt.. yet will never change..he/she is not a shape shifter. ...they evolve, they transform.... metanoia... Greek...for the transformation of mind though fire...alchemy...meaning, crisis. Self disclosure. I was controlling of my spouse. and that only drove this person away from my life. The person "cheated" ...I didnt forget...but I understood the human side of her as a biological being. we're a polygamous being at the root...biology baby. It ended... the most adult thing to so was to let this person be. Support their needs and that's that. The question is: did I change|? No...I just abstain of hurting in such a manner again. And so...with in your program... I can tell when people are not being genuine...its cool...but honesty attracts people... I WILL LET YOU KNOW MY QUESTION SOON BASED ON ALL PROGRAMS... PROBAABLY SERIOUS. ATE. The Anonymous One.
Hey Anonymous! Thank you for taking the time to respond to our show on friendship. I can definitely see your point of view on change, or lack of change. It makes sense when you use the descriptions biologically. I know how hard it is to self disclose information, but it definitely makes me see your point of view and take it as "proof", or so you put it, of how people don't necessarly change, but can abstain from "bad behavior." I really look forward to hearing what your question is for us. Hope to hear from you soon!!! Cheers- Leilani
Defining the meaning to a word: friendship.
ReplyDeleteDepending on the relationship one had with their parents...this is the way you will relate to the rest of the world.
For instance, a male boy that was in a traumatized relationship with a mother.... this person will not have a good relationship with his wife. He can fake relationships with other woman...and they may even fall under the spell of what a good friend this person is when in reality he is just being fake. Fake to be accepted. The same goes to woman in....
THE PERSON THAT KNOWS ONESELF WITH HAVE A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH ANOTHER HUMAN BEING.
PEOPLE DO NO CHANGE.... see it as an organic being. it grows, decays....the psyche goes through pleasure and transform...but nothing changes.... only transforms...
Hey Anonymous One! This is a great take on the definition of friendship. I do believe that how our parent's raise us can definitely influence our relationships with other people. Both healthy and unhealthy. However, I do believe that transformation is in a sense change. Perhaps we do not change completely, but choosing a form of transformation brings a sense of change. I look at Maslow's hierarchy of needs in response to "knowing one self". I have heard that very very few people actually come into full self actualization, and in a sense we are all flawed. Change is inevitable if we expect people to know "oneself". Biologically speaking I wouldn't know. Humans are still humans. We can't become flowers because we want to be flowers. So in that sense I agree, people cannot biologically change who they are. Great insight!!! Keep it coming! Cheers! -Leilani
ReplyDeleteto change is, for instance, and I don't want to impose anything....just don't believe anything I say...put it to proof.!!!!! hahaha
ReplyDeleteA tree...will grow, a human too,...or better yet. a catapillar...is the same organic matter...it goes into metamorphosis... meaning ...meta-external change of appearance...nonetheless, it is still the same organism. it transformed...but its biological body is the same matter. as for humans. in their psyche, because of events... they adapt.. yet will never change..he/she is not a shape shifter. ...they evolve, they transform.... metanoia... Greek...for the transformation of mind though fire...alchemy...meaning, crisis.
Self disclosure. I was controlling of my spouse. and that only drove this person away from my life. The person "cheated" ...I didnt forget...but I understood the human side of her as a biological being. we're a polygamous being at the root...biology baby. It ended... the most adult thing to so was to let this person be. Support their needs and that's that. The question is: did I change|? No...I just abstain of hurting in such a manner again. And so...with in your program... I can tell when people are not being genuine...its cool...but honesty attracts people...
I WILL LET YOU KNOW MY QUESTION SOON BASED ON ALL PROGRAMS... PROBAABLY SERIOUS. ATE.
The Anonymous One.
Hey Anonymous! Thank you for taking the time to respond to our show on friendship. I can definitely see your point of view on change, or lack of change. It makes sense when you use the descriptions biologically. I know how hard it is to self disclose information, but it definitely makes me see your point of view and take it as "proof", or so you put it, of how people don't necessarly change, but can abstain from "bad behavior." I really look forward to hearing what your question is for us. Hope to hear from you soon!!! Cheers- Leilani
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