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Friday, June 28, 2013
Check out our latest episode about Dating!
This week your Chatting Drunk hosts talk about DATING!!! We had a blast talking about what we think are the most common dating mistakes people make, best places to meet and best kind of dates! Listen to our show and let us know what you think about dating. Cheers!!
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Thursday, June 27, 2013
Dating
This week we will discuss dating! We will discuss what we think the most common mistakes people make in the dating world. Where we think the best places are to meet someone and what we think are the best kind of dates!
Michele:
Hey guys I decided to discuss dating because I am single and even though a lot of you guys are married who hasn't been single at some point?! Everyone goes through it, some may have dated differently than others. Some people just "hang out", some go out on proper dates and some may marry their first love from childhood or high school and maybe never really went on a "real" date!
So I think the most common mistake people make while they are dating is having unrealistic expectations. Maybe even going in with expectations at all isn't the best for a first date. I have recently been dating and I have absolutely no expectations for these men! Do I have expectations for myself? Of course! Do I have deal breakers when it comes to relationships? YES! Do I have expectations for first dates...Not really! Do I have standards yes, but after they pass the initial standards (and let me tell you they are pretty high! haha) I do not have any real expectations for these guys. I have gone on these dates knowing they could be completely horrible and I will have an awesome bad date story for you guys. But to be honest the actual dates haven't been too bad! Did I click with these guys and find my soul mate? Probably not! Did I meet great guys? Yes! Did I also meet not so great guys? Yes! Does it make me want to go back to me ex because I know what I'll get with him? No! Right now I'm attracted to the unknown in hopes that there is someone out there that has the qualities I am looking for in a life partner!
I think it depends on what you are looking for when it comes to where you want to meet someone. If you are looking for a relationship I wouldn't think the best place to meet someone is a bar...but hey I do know a couple who met at a club had been in a long distance relationship for YEARS and finally got married a couple of years ago! So who am I to say where people should or shouldn't meet. The thing that I do know is I think people should be resourceful when it comes to meeting someone new! There are many online dating sites out there match.com has made attempts to bring people face to face with their singles mixers. I've been to one happy hour they put on and it was fun I got sick and left early but I'd totally recommend it for singles! I recently read an article in cosmo where an editor tried many different dating sites which prompted this topic. I decided to sign myself up and try them out. I'll talk about my experiences on the show I don't want to bore you with explanations here! But I do recommend Crazy Blind Date by OKCupid! It's a fun way to get out there and date! I would also recommend picking up a hobby or if you are religious get involved in your church or a bible study.
I think the best kind of dates are the ones where you are doing something together! It might be a little hard to concentrate on them in the beginning but I think after the initial thing is that you guys are doing is finished you are more relaxed and will know if you really want to get to know them or not. Last weekend I went bowling for a first date and we played two games I won the first game and in the middle of the second game my date put up the bumpers so he would no longer get a gutter ball...I obviously knew well he seems to be a problem solver but the more I learned about him the more I realized this is not a successful match!
I think the important thing to keep in mind while dating is to have fun, you will have some good and bad dates but you will learn a lot about yourself and what you are looking for in a significant other.
Leilani:
I'm not a big dater if dating is even something I do. Lol! I prefer meeting people casually. I probably wouldn't know how to go on a date if I tried. What I do recall when hanging out with someone for the first time it is always uncomfortable. You try to find things to talk about, you may or may not have butterfly's in your stomach, you have awkward conversations and moments of silence. The whole situation is just awkward. Lol!
Moving onto the questions... I think that the most common mistakes that people make when they first start dating is that they have expectations. They expect people to behave a certain way. Instead of just relaxing, being yourself, and going with the flow, people tend to have unrealistic expectations, making for awkward behavior. If you don't expect anything to happen, then you will be fine!!! Another mistake that people make is that they try to hard, or they talk about their exes. Just relax, enjoy the moment, and focus on what's in front of you... I think that will eliminate mistakes.
The best places to meet people? Well, I wouldn't know. I think that you should maybe try to meet people in places that you enjoy being at. Lol! Perhaps church or a bar. I really have no idea. Just make sure that you meet someone in a place that you enjoy because then perhaps that person has the same interests as you being in that location. Hahahaha!!!
The best kind of date to be on... in my opinion, would have to be a casual date. Where we are doing an activity, or relaxing in a quiet location where we can talk. I don't know exactly what the best kind of date would be, but when I find out, I'll let you guys know. Lol! The worse date to be on, or go on, would have to be a very formal dinner. Ugh! There is nothing more uncomfortable than meeting someone for the first time, and dressing up, and sitting in a fancy schmancy place with nothing to talk about. Save that for a few dates in, or date night when you're married.
Luis:
Dating...it's been a long time since I went through this scene. I think that dating can be a lot of fun on the right night or a living nightmare. You need to make sure you bring a gift, your best clothes, and according to Leilani some lube and a compass. Be respectful! Don't expect to revive something you haven't earned. And be a gentleman, it will get you farther than you think.
Michele:
Hey guys I decided to discuss dating because I am single and even though a lot of you guys are married who hasn't been single at some point?! Everyone goes through it, some may have dated differently than others. Some people just "hang out", some go out on proper dates and some may marry their first love from childhood or high school and maybe never really went on a "real" date!
So I think the most common mistake people make while they are dating is having unrealistic expectations. Maybe even going in with expectations at all isn't the best for a first date. I have recently been dating and I have absolutely no expectations for these men! Do I have expectations for myself? Of course! Do I have deal breakers when it comes to relationships? YES! Do I have expectations for first dates...Not really! Do I have standards yes, but after they pass the initial standards (and let me tell you they are pretty high! haha) I do not have any real expectations for these guys. I have gone on these dates knowing they could be completely horrible and I will have an awesome bad date story for you guys. But to be honest the actual dates haven't been too bad! Did I click with these guys and find my soul mate? Probably not! Did I meet great guys? Yes! Did I also meet not so great guys? Yes! Does it make me want to go back to me ex because I know what I'll get with him? No! Right now I'm attracted to the unknown in hopes that there is someone out there that has the qualities I am looking for in a life partner!
I think it depends on what you are looking for when it comes to where you want to meet someone. If you are looking for a relationship I wouldn't think the best place to meet someone is a bar...but hey I do know a couple who met at a club had been in a long distance relationship for YEARS and finally got married a couple of years ago! So who am I to say where people should or shouldn't meet. The thing that I do know is I think people should be resourceful when it comes to meeting someone new! There are many online dating sites out there match.com has made attempts to bring people face to face with their singles mixers. I've been to one happy hour they put on and it was fun I got sick and left early but I'd totally recommend it for singles! I recently read an article in cosmo where an editor tried many different dating sites which prompted this topic. I decided to sign myself up and try them out. I'll talk about my experiences on the show I don't want to bore you with explanations here! But I do recommend Crazy Blind Date by OKCupid! It's a fun way to get out there and date! I would also recommend picking up a hobby or if you are religious get involved in your church or a bible study.
I think the best kind of dates are the ones where you are doing something together! It might be a little hard to concentrate on them in the beginning but I think after the initial thing is that you guys are doing is finished you are more relaxed and will know if you really want to get to know them or not. Last weekend I went bowling for a first date and we played two games I won the first game and in the middle of the second game my date put up the bumpers so he would no longer get a gutter ball...I obviously knew well he seems to be a problem solver but the more I learned about him the more I realized this is not a successful match!
I think the important thing to keep in mind while dating is to have fun, you will have some good and bad dates but you will learn a lot about yourself and what you are looking for in a significant other.
Leilani:
I'm not a big dater if dating is even something I do. Lol! I prefer meeting people casually. I probably wouldn't know how to go on a date if I tried. What I do recall when hanging out with someone for the first time it is always uncomfortable. You try to find things to talk about, you may or may not have butterfly's in your stomach, you have awkward conversations and moments of silence. The whole situation is just awkward. Lol!
Moving onto the questions... I think that the most common mistakes that people make when they first start dating is that they have expectations. They expect people to behave a certain way. Instead of just relaxing, being yourself, and going with the flow, people tend to have unrealistic expectations, making for awkward behavior. If you don't expect anything to happen, then you will be fine!!! Another mistake that people make is that they try to hard, or they talk about their exes. Just relax, enjoy the moment, and focus on what's in front of you... I think that will eliminate mistakes.
The best places to meet people? Well, I wouldn't know. I think that you should maybe try to meet people in places that you enjoy being at. Lol! Perhaps church or a bar. I really have no idea. Just make sure that you meet someone in a place that you enjoy because then perhaps that person has the same interests as you being in that location. Hahahaha!!!
The best kind of date to be on... in my opinion, would have to be a casual date. Where we are doing an activity, or relaxing in a quiet location where we can talk. I don't know exactly what the best kind of date would be, but when I find out, I'll let you guys know. Lol! The worse date to be on, or go on, would have to be a very formal dinner. Ugh! There is nothing more uncomfortable than meeting someone for the first time, and dressing up, and sitting in a fancy schmancy place with nothing to talk about. Save that for a few dates in, or date night when you're married.
Luis:
Dating...it's been a long time since I went through this scene. I think that dating can be a lot of fun on the right night or a living nightmare. You need to make sure you bring a gift, your best clothes, and according to Leilani some lube and a compass. Be respectful! Don't expect to revive something you haven't earned. And be a gentleman, it will get you farther than you think.
Thursday, June 20, 2013
Check out our latest episode WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
This week your Chatting Drunk hosts talk about WHAT WOULD YOU DO in certain scenarios!!! We had a blast tonight talking about these different scenarios. We didn't blog this week because we wanted to save the scenarios and make them a surprise. Listen to our show and let us know what you would do in the different scenarios. Cheers!!!
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Thursday, June 13, 2013
LATEST EPISODE: SUMMER MOVIES AND SHOWS
This week your Chatting Drunk hosts Michele and Leilani discuss their favorite Summer movies and shows! What are some of the movies and shows you look forward to watching this Summer???
Tune in next week June 20th at 9:00pm for our next Listener's Choice Episode on Blogtalkradio.com. Cheers!!!
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Summer Movies and Shows
This week your Chatting Drunk Hosts talk about their favorite SUMMER MOVIES AND SHOWS. These are the ones that we want to see or have been tuning into. What are some of your favorites coming up this Summer?
Check out our latest show on Blogtalkradio.com! Hope to hear from you CHEERS!!!
Leilani
Oh how I love the Summer! Especially going to the movies and catching up on my latest shows! So far this Summer I've watched Fast Six, Iron Man 3, Now You See Me, & Star Trek Into the Darkness. So far Summer movies haven't let me down, and I've seen some pretty great movies, with some pretty great people! I'm also looking forward to the new shows coming back this season, as well as catching up on shows that I've missed. I love Duck Dynasty, True Blood, Defiance, Real Housewives, Princesses of Long Island, and looking forward to Mistresses, and Devious Maids! What are some of your favorites that you think I would like to watch? I love all types of movies and shows, especially horror, sci-fi, and comedy. Cheers!!!
Michele
Hey guys! I have always loved the summer but the one thing I didn't like was that all of my tv shows were ending and I wouldn't have anything to watch until September and now sometimes October! Over the last few years networks have wised up and have started showing brand new shows over the normal summer hiatus. Army Wives used to be my favorite summer program but this last season they started early and showed it at the end of Spring. Drop Dead Diva is coming which has been my favorite summer show for the last couple of years as well as True Blood. ABC Family has starting taking breaks with their shows 3 months on 3 months off which is a good idea and I'm really excited to see what happens on Pretty Little Liars that show does not disappoint! I could not forget Big Brother my favorite summer tv reality game show! With all of these shows starting my DVR will be full and keep me entertained until Fall when the new TV season begins! As for Movies I have always loved movies and love going to the drive in to catch a double feature, with all these "End of the world" movies coming out this summer these movies should be interesting.
Check out our latest show on Blogtalkradio.com! Hope to hear from you CHEERS!!!
Leilani
Oh how I love the Summer! Especially going to the movies and catching up on my latest shows! So far this Summer I've watched Fast Six, Iron Man 3, Now You See Me, & Star Trek Into the Darkness. So far Summer movies haven't let me down, and I've seen some pretty great movies, with some pretty great people! I'm also looking forward to the new shows coming back this season, as well as catching up on shows that I've missed. I love Duck Dynasty, True Blood, Defiance, Real Housewives, Princesses of Long Island, and looking forward to Mistresses, and Devious Maids! What are some of your favorites that you think I would like to watch? I love all types of movies and shows, especially horror, sci-fi, and comedy. Cheers!!!
Michele
Hey guys! I have always loved the summer but the one thing I didn't like was that all of my tv shows were ending and I wouldn't have anything to watch until September and now sometimes October! Over the last few years networks have wised up and have started showing brand new shows over the normal summer hiatus. Army Wives used to be my favorite summer program but this last season they started early and showed it at the end of Spring. Drop Dead Diva is coming which has been my favorite summer show for the last couple of years as well as True Blood. ABC Family has starting taking breaks with their shows 3 months on 3 months off which is a good idea and I'm really excited to see what happens on Pretty Little Liars that show does not disappoint! I could not forget Big Brother my favorite summer tv reality game show! With all of these shows starting my DVR will be full and keep me entertained until Fall when the new TV season begins! As for Movies I have always loved movies and love going to the drive in to catch a double feature, with all these "End of the world" movies coming out this summer these movies should be interesting.
Friday, June 7, 2013
Check out our latest show SUMMERTIME
This week your Chatting Drunk hosts talked about SUMMERTIME!!! What are some of your favorite Summertime activities? Music? Places to go?
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Listen to my new episode SUMMERTIME at http://tobtr.com/s/4955485. #BlogTalkRadio
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Thursday, June 6, 2013
SUMMERTIME
This week your Chatting Drunk Hosts talk about their favorite activities to do during the summer. WHAT ARE YOUR SUMMERTIME JAMS? WHAT ARE YOUR FAVORITE ACTIVITIES AND PLACES TO GO???
Tune in LIVE on Thursday, June 6th on Blogtalkradio.com to chat with your hosts about your favorite Summertime activities!!!
Michele
Growing up my summer consisted of Summer Day camp, hanging out with friends and family and weekends trying to stay cool! I grew up in the valley where all summer long it's in the triple digits. We would go swimming but I hated swimming in August because it just feels like you are in a warm bath outside. We would go to the lake or river and consume a lot of ice cream, sno-cones and sweet tea! Obviously summer bbq's are the best and the 4th of July never disappointed we would have home made ice cream, make sure we ate hamburgers and/or hot dogs and potato salad (my favorite). Of course we did our own fireworks...my favorite were the sparklers even though they'd always freak me out at first! We always took a family vacation, when I was really small we'd always go to an amusement park, I don't know if my favorite was Universal Studios or Disneyland! I have always loved movies and television so being able to see my favorite movies and tv shows come to life were really cool for me! As I got older my family started spending our family vacation's at Mission Beach here in San Diego we always enjoyed our time here!
Now that I live here I try and have at least one bonfire a year at the beach! I love the beach, the sound of the waves relax me! I try and work on my tan as much as possible but make sure I apply enough sun screen so I'm not going to get burned. (some sun is good for you!) In my early twenties I would always take a girls trip to Vegas during the summer one summer i took 3 or 4 of them! Last year I took a girls trip to Tamecula for wine tasting which was really really fun! I think it's important to take trips with your friends it's a great bonding experience! Who could forget the San Diego Fair?! That has become a highlight of my summers! Taste of the Fair Tuesdays is my favorite because you can get cheap samples of the fair food!
Last but not least favorite summer jams?! Lets see I love Summertime by DJ Jazzy Jeff and the Fresh Prince and Kenny Chesney's song by the same name is my fave country summer jam, Vacation by the Go go's, Summer Girls by LFO, California Girls by the Beach Boys and Katy Perry's song by the same name is good too!
Leilani
Some of my summer jams are from some of my greatest summer memories. I love listening to Old School music, you know like the Lowrider Summer Jams compilations... lol! I also enjoy some of those 90's jams like Skeelo and Dove Shack. My all time favorite would have to be Summertime in the LBC! It's just one of those songs that makes you bob your head while driving to the beach and enjoying the sunshine. I love to spend my summers with my loved ones. We get into some crazy random adventures during the summer. Most recently, I went ghost hunting, and that was a different experience. hahahaha! Of course living in beautiful San Diego, I always make it a point to go to the beach. I like to enjoy the tourist attractions, but those can get pretty expensive, so I stick to things like the Del Mar Fair and some free festivals that you can catch every weekend. I also enjoy going to the theatre in the summer, especially the outdoor theatres. So fun! Finally, I love just hanging out and having backyard bbq's. Those are the best times!!! And especially when alcohol is involved, you know I'll be there! LOL! Cheers!!!
Luis
Tune in to check out what Luis has to say about Summertime. :)
Tune in LIVE on Thursday, June 6th on Blogtalkradio.com to chat with your hosts about your favorite Summertime activities!!!
Michele
Growing up my summer consisted of Summer Day camp, hanging out with friends and family and weekends trying to stay cool! I grew up in the valley where all summer long it's in the triple digits. We would go swimming but I hated swimming in August because it just feels like you are in a warm bath outside. We would go to the lake or river and consume a lot of ice cream, sno-cones and sweet tea! Obviously summer bbq's are the best and the 4th of July never disappointed we would have home made ice cream, make sure we ate hamburgers and/or hot dogs and potato salad (my favorite). Of course we did our own fireworks...my favorite were the sparklers even though they'd always freak me out at first! We always took a family vacation, when I was really small we'd always go to an amusement park, I don't know if my favorite was Universal Studios or Disneyland! I have always loved movies and television so being able to see my favorite movies and tv shows come to life were really cool for me! As I got older my family started spending our family vacation's at Mission Beach here in San Diego we always enjoyed our time here!
Now that I live here I try and have at least one bonfire a year at the beach! I love the beach, the sound of the waves relax me! I try and work on my tan as much as possible but make sure I apply enough sun screen so I'm not going to get burned. (some sun is good for you!) In my early twenties I would always take a girls trip to Vegas during the summer one summer i took 3 or 4 of them! Last year I took a girls trip to Tamecula for wine tasting which was really really fun! I think it's important to take trips with your friends it's a great bonding experience! Who could forget the San Diego Fair?! That has become a highlight of my summers! Taste of the Fair Tuesdays is my favorite because you can get cheap samples of the fair food!
Last but not least favorite summer jams?! Lets see I love Summertime by DJ Jazzy Jeff and the Fresh Prince and Kenny Chesney's song by the same name is my fave country summer jam, Vacation by the Go go's, Summer Girls by LFO, California Girls by the Beach Boys and Katy Perry's song by the same name is good too!
Leilani
Some of my summer jams are from some of my greatest summer memories. I love listening to Old School music, you know like the Lowrider Summer Jams compilations... lol! I also enjoy some of those 90's jams like Skeelo and Dove Shack. My all time favorite would have to be Summertime in the LBC! It's just one of those songs that makes you bob your head while driving to the beach and enjoying the sunshine. I love to spend my summers with my loved ones. We get into some crazy random adventures during the summer. Most recently, I went ghost hunting, and that was a different experience. hahahaha! Of course living in beautiful San Diego, I always make it a point to go to the beach. I like to enjoy the tourist attractions, but those can get pretty expensive, so I stick to things like the Del Mar Fair and some free festivals that you can catch every weekend. I also enjoy going to the theatre in the summer, especially the outdoor theatres. So fun! Finally, I love just hanging out and having backyard bbq's. Those are the best times!!! And especially when alcohol is involved, you know I'll be there! LOL! Cheers!!!
Luis
Tune in to check out what Luis has to say about Summertime. :)
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